Should You Consider an Internet Romance?
August 30, 2010
Carly’s quest in finding a suitable partner for marriage seemed impossible. She found the singles scene at clubs to be uncomfortable and her social circle seemed to consist of more married friends with a shrinking amount of singles.
Although she had heard of internet dating and saw the ads, she had hesitated to take what she imagined was a rather drastic step. What would her experiences be like? How would she find someone online? What were the risks?
If you are in this situation then quite likely you’ve considered venturing into online dating to meet someone.
Our lives are increasingly dependant on technology as opposed to face-to-face contact. It is not at all surprising that millions have already ventured into online dating as a way to find a relationship rather than waiting for a chance meeting.
But what are some of the findings as researchers spend more time analyzing the behavior of online daters?
In a study reported on CBS News, 15% of Americans with internet access have visited an internet dating site. 27% of them were 18-29 years old. Obviously online dating is a popular pastime.
Dating Advice: Should You Play With Madness?
August 27, 2010
I have a friend with a big problem, a guy who needs good dating advice badly. All the women he dates are dysfunctional, and he can’t figure out why. Actually, most of the women he dates aren’t merely dysfunctional, they’re psychotic.
In fact, when came to me for some dating advice, he told a story about the last woman he dated, how she literally stalked him for three months after their relationship ended, one day calling him a “Nazi,” the next calling him the sweetest guy on earth. It got so bad he decided to sell his house and move out of state. No joke, this is a true story.
However, this is NOT the first woman like this he’s dated. In fact, most women he’s dated are like this. Now, you might think this guy is bad looking and broke, a complete loser who just can’t “do any better.” The truth, though is this: the guy’s 6′2″, in good shape, could pose for GQ, and does very well financially. And, he can be a fun, witty guy to hang out with. Why then, did this guy come to me for dating advice?
Online Dating Safety - Tackling Internet Crime
August 22, 2010
Online dating is a great way to contact and meet new people. Either for free or for a small fee you can have access to thousands of singles looking for love.
However it is an unfortunate fact that whilst the vast majority of people using these services are decent law abiding citizens looking for love there are those that seek to exploit the vulnerabiltiy of singles online.
A common trick comes from African or Eastern European nationals who e-mail users with tales of family deaths, large inheritences and if only they could get across to the UK if you pay them some money they would share this money with you. They often ask for your private e-mail address for “privacy” purposes.
Of course this is a scam pure and simple, yet some users may be caught out and it is important to learn to identify these scams.
Tips
Firstly do not be fooled by their profile details - their sign up information may say they are from the UK, United States etc.. but this does not mean they are. More often than not they are sitting in an internet cafe in Africa.
10 Secrets to Online Dating Success
August 17, 2010
Online dating is a new way to find friends or perhaps to find your special someone.
So many people right now are interested in online dating because most Internet users are singles and through the Internet meet with other singles from across the globe.
Internet dating is safe and convenient.
This article will reveal 10 secrets to help you to become successful at Internet dating. Are you ready for that?
1. Knowing your self and what kind of person you are, so you can build confidence in your self
2. Find out what kind of relationship you are looking for. Whether your seeking a friendship or a pen pal or something more serious that may lead to a relationship and maybe marriage.
3. Know what kind of personality you are seeking, so you can find somebody who is compatible with you.
4. Start to join with an online dating website that is available on the Internet. Find out if that dating site covers international or just local members so you can decide which one you desire.
5. Write a good and appealing profile. Try to be honest and say what kind of person you feel you are.
Why I Prefer Online Dating
August 12, 2010
The next most likely place to meet your match is the place where you regularly hang out. However, if your idea of socializing is hanging out at the local pub or bar with a couple of buddies, choices are pretty much limited and you’d be competing with all the guys for the limited number of girls.
The bar is not exactly the best place to get to know a girl. Here’s some reason why … It doesn’t take a genius to deduce that half of the bar patrons are usually roaring drunk. And it is also a known fact that the highest quality people don’t frequent bars regularly. Even if you are not roaring drunk, you can hardly hear yourself let alone see clearly in a bar with the loud music and barely there lights.
What is illustrated above is a very common scenario for the thirty something who is still single and available. This group forms the biggest group in the single and available population. They are financially stable, with a career that is definitely going places. In fact, about the only thing lacking in their life is having that special someone to share their success with. Are you also part of this group? If so, where does that leave you?
What are Seduction Lairs?
August 7, 2010
Are you familiar with Seduction Lairs and how to use them to your advantage?
They are around purely for your benefit if you wish to get better with women. If you want to get better with women it will help you if you find other individuals who share the same goals to keep you motivated and learn from. They are a great resource if you take advantage of them.
What you really want to do if join a local lair and find others who are good with women. Copy their beliefs, mentality and attitude and you will have the sameoutcome that they have.
You can also learn about all the major seduction methods in the lairs as the majority of them are open to just about anything that works.
If you do not live anywhere near a city that has a local lair why don’t you start one?
Go to http://groups.yahoo.com/ and start a group of your own. Yeah you might not have that much skill yet but if you are actively searching for others and trying to help you will be surprised how quickly you can find some new friends.
5 Signs Why He Wont Leave His Wife
August 4, 2010
Ladies
Yes, we all have a friend who is or has been involved with a married man. Perhaps we have been guilty ourselves. Even the words of our mother’s "Don’t get involved with a married man or you’ll get hurt" rings loud but seems to fade into oblivion when "Mr. Smooth" enters our space.
So now that you are involved (I mean your friend is involved) with "Mr. I wanna have my cake and eat it to", what are the tell tale signs that he is never going to leave his wife.
1. It’s been a year (or more!)
If you’ve been involved in this affair (sorry honey there’s no kind way to put it) for a year or more waiting for him to get his business in order, then darling it’s likely never to happen.
2. It’s not the money
Aren’t you worth more to him than his losing half his net worth? "As soon as I can move some of my assets out of her name, I’ll leave". Sure! Remember you also have some assets to bring to the relationship besides enhancing his wellbeing.
3. I’ll wait ’til the kids are older
10 Reasons to Use Online Dating Sites
July 29, 2010
There are many more reasons than just ten that I would like to mention, but in this article I have focussed on the primary ten reasons why I believe on-line dating is here to stay. It is now understood that the industry has even further to grow as more and more service suppliers in this segment realize the many niches yet to be serviced and explored. If you are concerned about your time, privacy or safety, while using On-line Dating, then this is a ‘must read’.
1.Most people are pretty busy these days. You can imagine how many times you would have to go out and socialize before finding the right partner. Then consider how much you end up spending week after week. You may meet the right person the first time you go out, but you and I know that this is highly unlikely. This procedure more often than not ends up in a lot of wasted time and a lot of wasted money too. However, dating sites(in general) cost nothing to register and or search.
Conversation Starters Can Save Your First Date
July 25, 2010
Conversation starters can literally save your life on a first date.
Why?
Well, as you know, going on a first date can be very scary and intimidating. Our minds are overcome with fear and insecurities and we cave in to those emotions.
We’re scared of being rejected, we’re afraid of failure, we’re nervous about saying the wrong thing at the wrong time and we’re anxious about what our date will think of us.
All these anxieties are totally human and completely understandable ? but they produce devastating results: they paralyze us and greatly inhibit our ability to behave normally and confidently like we do with our family and with our closest friends.
Our personal fears lead us to the most uncomfortable situation where we feel a terrible lack of confidence, all stressed out, angry and frustrated.
The bottom line is that we’re doomed to end up in the most annoying, embarrassing and even humiliating situation, which we all know as that "awkward silence".
Believe it or not, most of us do have the capacity to carry on a fluid, easy-going and enjoyable conversation with people we have known for years ? so, with the right approach, it shouldn’t be any different with the woman we’re on a first date with.
How to Attract Girls Even If Youre Short
July 21, 2010
Let me mention a few names and you can tell me what they all have in common: - Al Pacino - Humphrey Bogart - Napoleon That’s right… they’re all short guys. But you know what? They were all awesome with the ladies (and not just because of their celebrity status… they were all players before they became famous.) In fact, the reason they could attract girls was because of their strong inner attitude. There are a couple things you can do in the short term. Wearing boots right now will subtly add 2 or 3 inches to your height. Also, when you dress, wear vertical stripes and tight clothes. That will make you look SLENDER, which will make you appear taller. Long term, one way short guys can be more dominant physically is to work out. In fact that really should be first and foremost. If you’ve got muscles, it helps A LOT, not only with your physical appearance, but also with your confidence levels, strong inner attitude, and poise. So get in the gym. When you’re muscular and you’re a short guy, you become like a pit bull. And by the way, I’d like you to experiment with that.. do not always be the nice guy who’s polite. For the next few months, try to let your “inner badass” come out a bit when you’re with girls. Do the affirmation, “I’m becoming like the pitbull who can dominate the bigger dogs.” Once you start feeling more and more confident in a few weeks, change your affirmation to, “I AM like the pitbull who can dominate bigger dogs.” I’ve noticed that a lot of short guys develop a VERY strong presence by having cultivated that inner badass. Now, I’m not saying you should become a jerk… but just try to balance out that inner nice guy. Next thing to do long term is to GIVE UP any approval-seeking. Who cares what women think of you? Go through life doing what you want and being who you are. (That is so key by the way… those guys I list above were players exactly because they went through life doing what they wanted and being true to who they were.) You see, short guys who are badasses really have a bit of an advantage. Because of their stature, they automatically are able to have more rapport with chicks (who tend to be short themselves) than the guys who are beanpoles. And when you add to that a bit of a “badboy” element, it makes chicks dripping wet with attraction. The bottom line is this: only if YOU feel uncomfortable with your height will it affect you with the girls. If you feel completely comfortable with your height, then they will too. By the way, when it comes to tall guys, what women find attractive about them isn’t their height. It’s their dominance. If you have a tight sense of inner confidence, and project a personality that sucks them in, height will be the furthest thing from their minds. So to sum up, be true to yourself, take risks in life, cultivate your inner badass, and stop caring about anyone’s approval. And hit the gym ASAP. And do the fashion things I said. Then you’ll attract girls without worrying about irrelevant things like height.
