Dating Tip for Women: Dont Work Too Hard
February 28, 2009
Remember Jerry Hall, the model who married Mick Jagger? Jerry was famous for making this statement:
“My mother said it was simple to keep a man. You must be a maid in the living room, a cook in the kitchen, and a whore in the bedroom.”
I don’t know about you, but if keeping a man meant all that work, I’d have stayed single.
In addition to that pearl of wisdom, Ms. Hall offered this one: “Even if you have only two seconds, drop everything and give him (oral sex). That way he won’t really want sex with anyone else.”
Poor Jerry. Too bad her mother didn’t tell her that if a man tends to want sex with “anyone else,” he’s not great husband material.
Sadly, despite all her hard work, Mick Jagger continued to have sex with other people and fathered a child with another model during his marriage to Hall. They are now divorced. So much for keeping a man!
The point? No guy is worth running yourself ragged for. Instead of appreciating your efforts, he will likely take you for granted and come to resent you. Think about it: Do you fall for guys who are at your beck and call all the time? They’re great for helping you move, but you probably wouldn’t marry one.
Tips For A Lasting Marriage
February 28, 2009
My parents gave me this advice about marriage. They have been married since the 1960s and are still happily married to each other.
In marriage, when an argument is about to blow up, remember that takes 2 hands to clap. When one party is angry, the other should be understanding and not argue back. The calmer party should try to listen the cry, the hurt behind the upset.
Marriage is a life long journey together. Not simply a boat you get on together and get off when it does not work out.
Look at the old couples who are still together after so many decades. Their love has matured from a passionate lust to a deep, lasting love. How did they do it?
As you go through life together, you are bound to irritate one another. Nothing is so smooth as the movies might want you to believe. Little things that never bothered you initially might start getting on your nerves. That is normal. Your spouse is not perfect. Neither are you.
Marriage is about love. Love is about acceptance. Forgiveness. A love that is deeper than a rush of passionate lust. Tolerance. Of adapting to one another.
Gift Wrapping Can Be Fun and Frugal Too!
February 27, 2009
Gift Wrapping Can Be Fun and Frugal Too!
by: Cyndi Roberts
A big part of most families’ treasured Christmas traditions
is the ritual of opening the presents. A big part of getting
ready for Christmas is Buying the Presents! Most of us must
do our best to save money where we can when doing our
shopping.
It’s always been my belief that the most inexpensive gift
is made special by the wrapping. It’s an added pleasure
to be able to admire a package before opening.
These are some of the ways I have made our frugal,holiday packages
beautiful and special.
This year, I have discovered “Tulle”. Tulle is available at
discount and craft stores by the yard–in many different colors
and in many different widths. I happened to find a spool of
white tulle in a 6-inch width (on the clearance rack)and used
it for a bow on a birthday present recently. I cut it into a
3-inch width and
just wrapped it around the box like ribbon and tied it into
a big bow and I was astounded at how good it looked! It’s kind
Managing Holiday Stress
February 26, 2009
Managing Holiday Stress
by: Jeannine Athens-Virtue
Holidays are the time of year to seduce the senses and bolster the bonds between family and friends. But even the hardiest of revelers can succumb to holiday stress. Fret not, you weary holiday warriors. Below are tips for managing holiday stress. These holiday stress tips include ways to stay organized, ways to volunteer your time, decorate, shop, cook, and even write cards - all the while making your health and happiness top priorities.
Time Management Tips to Minimize Stress: Stress and depression often go hand in hand. It is estimated that 10 percent of the population experiences depression triggered by stress. You can minimize these unwanted effects by controlling time spent on holiday chores.
-Set limits. Don’t try to do everything in one day or one weekend. Map out your holiday schedule, decide how much you can do at any given time and stick with it. Don’t forget to ask for help if needed.
-Take time for yourself. It’s easy to get burdened with a to-do list but while writing down your To-Dos, remember to pencil in time for relaxation and daily rest. Complete a crossword or Sudoku puzzle. Take a walk, a nap or a long, hot bubble bath. These little mental and physical breaks are quick pick-me-ups that will rejuvenate you.
How to Find, Select, and Afford a Wedding Photographer
February 25, 2009
You are engaged and one of the most important days in your life is fast approaching. Your wedding day will be filled with happiness and emotion. Family and friends will be there; some you have not seen in many years. It will be a wonderful day for you to remember and share. There will be so many things going on of which most you will not even know about until you look at the wedding photographs.
Choosing a photographer may be a difficult and daunting task; and affording it may be even more cumbersome. You may be apt to ask a friend or relative to photograph it for you; this is surely to be a bad idea for many reasons. A professional wedding photographer knows how to capture all the moments of your wedding day with the best results by having years of experience and photography knowledge.
Finding a wedding photographer is not difficult because there are so many. There are many ways to go about finding one and many things you should know. The best way of course is to be referred from another wedding couple that recently had their wedding photographed by a specific photographer. Notice I said "photographer" not business or studio. Your decision should be based off of one photographer’s work; not the work of a group or large wedding photography studio with multiple photographers. Always check who will be photographing your wedding.
Internet Dating ? It?s Not For Geeks
February 24, 2009
Six months ago an old school friend and I were chatting over coffee, putting the world to rights as women do. She was bemoaning her lack of success in meeting the "right sort" of men. I asked her if she had tried using an internet dating service, and the look of horror that spread across her face gave the instant answer ? of course not! Internet dating, she informed me, was for the sad, desperate, geeky or freaky.
Sadly this type of response is typical of people from all walks of life. Why sadly? Because those who instantly dismiss such services are missing out on a great opportunity.
The traditional argument for not using the internet to meet someone is that it is not natural. So what is natural? Where have people traditionally met their husbands, wives, lovers, and friends? Statistically, over the past 50 years the most common place for meeting ones spouse has been the workplace. This is hardly surprising given the ever increasing amounts of time most people are finding themselves working. Other common meeting places include bars, nightclubs, and parties, and some lucky few meet their lifetime partner early in life at college or university. However, the workplace remains number one for long term relationships.
A Moving Checklist
February 23, 2009
A Moving Checklist
by: Kyle Thomas Haley
MOVING! The very thought of it can send chills down our spine and can cause us to break out into a cold sweat. Experts say that any kind of “change” creates “stress”. Moving, (and especially if we are relocating to a new city or state), represents a huge change and naturally brings about a great deal of stress. This can be a double whammy, because stress can lead to a lack of energy and motivation. Many of us tend to procrastinate during stressful periods of our lives. This is one time, though, when we must rise above that. When preparing for a move we need to put the pedal to the metal and get a lot of things done. Moving and relocating calls for being proactive, grabbing the bull by the horns, and actually completing certain chores well in advance of their deadline.
Get Rid Of What You Don’t Need.
6 Ways to Save Money on Wedding Invitations
February 23, 2009
Inviting your possible guests on your wedding day can be costly. You have to give them traditional wedding cards to inform them of the date and venue, and possibly those cards are made of elegant or high quality papers and other materials that might cost a lot. If your goal is to save money, then you should think of cost ? effective alternatives to send out cards to your guests. Here are some tips.
1. Make a list of possible guests first. Invite only your closest friends and relatives so you’ll know the number of cards to make. Sometimes cards are made in excess and are thrown away.
2. No RSVP, please. Who cares about RSVP cards? Chances are they’ll just tell you in person that they will attend, so don’t include RSVP cards. This is especially true when they are your closest friends and co ? workers whom you see everyday.
3. Have a friend, relative or hobbyist make DIY cards. If you know someone talented in making cards, then have her come up with a design instead of hiring a company doing that for you.
Holiday Planning Tips For Parents
February 22, 2009
Holiday Planning Tips For Parents
by: Aurelia M. Williams
Ahhh, the Holidays The Thanksgiving turkey comes out of the oven golden brown, with an enticing aroma that fills the entire house. All the china is in pristine condition and not a single piece in the set is missing. The family is gathered for holiday pictures, the children are poised perfectly; hands to themselves, not a hair out of place and their smiles are shining brightly for the camera. Then just as the photographer is about to capture the shot you wake up! Let’s be realistic ladies. Without proper planning, the holidays are anything but a holiday. Just look at the list of things that need to be done: Shopping, cooking, cleaning, decorating, sending holiday mail, the list goes on and on.
Let me clue you all in on a few key questions that you should ask yourself in order to have a holiday season free of stress and worry, and instead filled with fun and laughter:
What types of holiday celebrations do you want? For example: Do you want to have an immediate family only holiday affair or an extravaganza including immediate and extended family plus a few friends? Once you’ve thought everything through and decided on the type of holiday gathering you would like, you can then start making your plans.
Seven Ways To Avoid Christmas Letdown
February 21, 2009
Seven Ways To Avoid Christmas Letdown
by: Constance Weygandt
I was discussing Christmas letdown with a friend. After all the preparation and money and time spent for one day, she feels the day let her down. Instead of a day of joy and happiness, it is a day of exhaustion and depression. Here are some ways to prevent that lacking feeling.
Have realistic expectations. If all of our focus, for six weeks or more, is to make one day perfect, it is no wonder we feel disappointed. We have set ourselves a goal which cannot be met. Focus on what Christmas day means. Traditionally, Christmas stands for a time of happiness, peace and joy. Try and notice the positive going on around you and decide how you want this season to be for you.
Don’t blow the budget. Set an amount of money that you can afford to spend and stick to it. Even small children can be a part of this. Explain to them that Santa can only give a few things on each list because there are so many children, in the world. Look up a census of different countries so they can get an idea of the huge amount of children that Santa has to deliver toys to. Trying to please everyone, with the perfect gift that we cannot afford, sets us up for long term buyer’s remorse.
