Sit Back And Remember
July 31, 2009
Sit Back And Remember
by: Tyler Brooker
Why is it, that any holiday, time off, or event, someone is sick? Do they plan it that way? I was sitting today, pondering, reminissing, and it came to my attention that every function I have ever attended had at least one of my family members sitting with the sniffles.
I was 7 years old. It was christmas time, and I was sick with my appendix. That was a good one. Is it coincidence? Or is there some greater evil out there that enjoys watching suffering in times of joy. We should find him, and tell him we are NOT impressed.
Timing is everything. There is a point, in every persons life, where everything seems to go wrong, and all you can do is sit there and watch it happen. But maybe it’s a good thing. In fact, if nothing goes wrong, we won’t know what’s right. Perhaps what we need to do is change those tears of helplessness into tears of joy. That would be weird. “I love it when i get Scarlet Fever!” Woops.
What Has Worked For Us (Brief Reflections On Enjoying 36 Years Of Marriage)
July 30, 2009
WHAT HAS WORKED FOR US
Brief Reflections On Enjoying 36 Years Of Marriage
© Lee Wise All rights reserved
For some reason or another I had a passing thought today. I was reflecting on our marriage and I wondered…
“What makes it work”?
We are not perfect, we don’t agree on all things, and we still work through issues even after being married for nearly thirty-six years.
Thirty-six years. And we still enjoy it — LOL!
I didn’t spend a lot of time answering my own question.
I did, however, quickly jot down a few ideas about what has “made it work” for us.
MAKE YOUR OWN APPLICATIONS
You make your own observations and applications.
Apply what I have written to your marriage, mental “Should I ever marry” list, insights on being a friend — or “whatever.”
You are creative. You can design ways to make this information “yours.”
After all, what is relevant in terms of this article is what is *most* important for you.
Your ideas For your world At this stage of your life.
Your reflections are the most important reflections.
Christmas Crafts for Kids
July 29, 2009
Christmas Crafts for Kids
by: Catherine Spelling
With the holiday season soon upon us, it’s time to think about some fun crafts you can do with your children in preparation of Christmas. My kids love doing holiday crafts, and I’m sure yours will too! It has always been challenging to find age-appropriate crafts that all of the children will enjoy making. My children each have a few years between them, so we have amassed quite a collection of crafts and craft ideas. Here are a few suggestions you can use. Consider it an early Christmas gift from me to you!
Bead garlands are one of my all-time favorite crafts. They are fun to make, extremely colorful, and great for children of all ages. You will need some string or plastic cord, a whole lot of beads, some scissors, and some glue. Cut the string or cord to the desired length, and thread it through the first bead. Tie a knot around that bead, and add some glue to keep it secure. Now add the rest of your beads. When you reach the end, tie the string off on the last bead and add some more glue. Now that was fun, wasn’t it?
Asian Dating - Respect and Honour
July 28, 2009
Honour and respect are two of the most important elements in Asian culture, and they shouldn’t be overlooked when it comes to dating. For instance, traditionally, Asian women are taught at a young age to know their place around men, treat them with respect and accommodate them, while men are taught to protect and provide for the women. Although these traditions have become a faded practice in Western culture, respect still plays an important role in the Asian dating scene.
If you are Asian and are seeking a serious relationship with a man or woman from your ethnic culture, you will need to take into consideration that every move you make could be watched carefully by your partner’s family, who may very well act as the third party to your date. With this in mind, here are a few tips you will want to think about when you begin dating:
Make an Impression - Be on your best behaviour. Listen to your date, create casual conversation, and be accommodating and thoughtful.
5 Ways To Keep Warm In Winter
July 28, 2009
5 Ways To Keep Warm In Winter
by: Janice Wee
The movie The Day After Tomorrow. Where everyone was facing an ice age ahead, with temperatures so cold your blood could freeze instantly.
The main characters in the story were hiding in a library. Wise move. You wouldn’t run out of things to burn in a library that is full of books. In their effort to stay warm, they kept their fireplace ablaze by burning library books, feeding the fire continually for that much needed warmth.
A homeless guy who had to survive winter in the streets crushed up paper and stuffed his clothes with them for insulation. One of the key ways to stay warm in winter is to insulate your clothing. That way, you keep the warmth in and the cold out. Crushing the paper trapped air. Air is a great insulator of heat. So that made a lot of sense.
Here are 5 tips to help you fight the cold.
#1 Generate heat.
To generate heat, most modern homes have a proper heating system. Just make sure you pay your heating bills. If you can’t pay the bills, get your bills paid on your behalf. For example, if you are a U.S. resident, you can get free heating at http://www.cheapestsale.com/free-heating.html
Marriage Advice: Ten Ways to Add Romance to Your Marriage
July 27, 2009
Every marriage needs a healthy dose of on-going romance to add spice, delight, and fun to the relationship. It’s not enough to just start out with a sizzling romance. You have to find a way to keep the romance alive as the months and years accumulate.
One of the marital challenges many couples face is how to live together without losing that special romantic spark. It’s all-too-easy to lose the role of lover along the way. When this happens, spouses often start relating to each other as they would to a friend or a sibling. Parents can begin to feel they are only "business partners" joined together to raise their children and keep the household running.
How can you keep romance alive when your daily work schedule is grueling, you’re always short on time and energy, and you’re not sure what to do? Here are ten tips to help you sprinkle romance into your marriage:
1. Pay attention when your spouse mentions things he or she likes or expresses interest in something that could make a good gift, such as a new CD, a book, or theater/concert/sports tickets. Be on the lookout for ideas for birthday, holiday, and anniversary gifts, plus "no reason" surprise gifts. It’s very flattering to know that someone really tried to find a gift that was just what you wanted.
5 Things To Do Before You Even Think About Getting A Divorce
July 26, 2009
There are many steps to take to protect yourself in a divorce. This article will get you started. Your best bet is to talk to a lawyer before you do anything.
1. Talk to a Marriage Counselor or other professional who may be able to help you save your marriage.
Even if you don’t think there’s hope for the marriage, "divorce counseling" can help you discover what went wrong, how to cope, and how to pick up the pieces and go on. Don’t wait for your spouse to participate. If you don’t know how to find a qualified counselor, our firm will be glad to recommend one or you can check out the directory of professionals at stayhappilymarried.com. Your employment, social or religious contacts might also provide leads.
2. Talk to an attorney before you do anything.
New Home Purchase
July 25, 2009
New Home Purchase
by: Jennifer Hershey
So the time has come for you to purchase a new home. Purchasing a new home is by far one of the largest financial transactions you will ever make in your life, so you will want to take your time and learn as much as you can about the mortgage industry.
The first question that comes to peoples minds when they begin their quest for a new home is “how much can I afford?”
Many factors play a role when it comes to determining how much you can afford. Such as your income, your current debt, down payment, the term of the loan, etc.
Once you have determined what your financial situation is you will want to begin your quest for a mortgage. But before you dive in and start filling out applications, make sure you shop around for the best possible deal. There are a lot of lenders out there that are hungry for your business. So let them compete for it.
Purchasing a home requires time, patience and education. But don’t worry, you don’t have to do all of the work yourself. There are people within the industry you will be working with such as Realtors and lenders that will help you through this process and point you in the right direction.
Man Made Diamonds, The Affordable Alternative
July 24, 2009
Diamonds may be a woman’s best friend, but modern man made diamonds are so good as to be indistinguishable from real diamonds. And when you look at the huge savings on price, man made diamonds may be a woman’s best decision.
Increasingly, engaged couples are considering the cost of some wedding jewelry. In today’s high pressure high cost lifestyle couples are really wondering whether or not it is appropriate to spend big on, say, a diamond engagement ring.
The more spent on wedding jewelry the less available later for the important things in the marriage, like a house. Or the kids when they arrive. Is it responsible to spend so much to buy a diamond engagement ring when these more important things may need to be compromised later?
Especially when you consider that good quality man made diamonds cannot be distinguished from real diamonds, even by jewellers.
Faux diamonds are big business. The pearl jewelry industry was revolutionised by the advent of cultured pearls. Synthetic diamonds are doing the same thing to the wedding jewelry business.
Russian Women - TOP 3 Reasons You Should Marry A Russian Woman
July 23, 2009
Do you know everything about Russian women that could help you get the ‘perfect’ wife?
Are you sure a Russian woman is the most important thing possible in your life?
Bear with me, I’m going to reveal you the TOP 3 reasons why you should marry a Russian woman and have a happy marriage with her.
TOP Reason 1
Russian women are known for their beauty. Most men think that Russian women are far more beautiful than western females. The fact is that Russian women really love to take care of their body, which is as important as their full-time job.
Russian women love dressing feminine and stylish because they want to feel happy with themselves and want to be attractive to the opposite sex.
If you like somebody who is slim, toned and well groomed, a Russian woman might be perfect for you.
TOP Reason 2
Russian women are highly educated and intelligent.
Have you ever noticed that most online ads related to Russian women contain college or university degrees mentions?
The fact is that most Russian women really value family and want to have kids …
